I don't give a sh*t.

Everyone is different and we all have our own uniqueness. What I am sad about is people who undermines their uniqueness and actually hated it because of the society. So what is a society? Who are they? Top fashion designers, millionaires, big companies? What gives them the right to dictate what we should and shouldn't do?

We all must appreciate what has been given for us. We have our own unique personalities, our characteristics. Humans are too complicated to be put into a box and categorized. Of course we have our own weaknesses and strengths, but many of us has only recognized our weaknesses and not appreciate our strengths. 

It seems like we have too many weaknesses that our strength seemed so irrelevant and meaningless.

Be grateful for what you've been given, even for your weaknesses. We are not obliged to be perfect all the time. We don’t even need to be perfect. We tried to change ourselves to be like someone else but it all ends in vain as we are not supposed to be someone else.

We forget that most of the times changing is not the solution to our problem and insecurities, but looking at the bright side does. 

Appreciate our strengths, our talent, our value, our sense of humor, our quirkiness, us. You are special, you are talented, and you are beautiful. And society’s biggest fear is you knowing that, because if you know the society will no longer have power over us. Don’t give in to society and you’d live a better life.

xo, Steph

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